piece of My heart to be honest my friends were getting on my nerves. here I was trying to get my mind off a woman and they bring me to a lesbian bar where they talk about nothing but lesbians and sex. it was like they were forcing me to think about the one thing I didn't want to think about. as though I said look the only thing I don't want to think about is hippos and to distract me they took me to the zoo.. Julie Watts okay your lesbian. now what? that's a question then newly out Kentucky graduates student Jess Hamlin tries to answer in this heartwarming hilarious count of her Southern days and nights. from making and losing acquaintances to finding and keeping you real friends. so bars and coffee houses schools and work. surviving family drama x lower drama. dealing with well-intentioned matchmakers and date some help. having crushed crushes and getting crushed. coping and sometimes not coping falling in lust and slowly exquisitely a surrendering to love. and other words all the stuff that dreams and real lesbians lives are made of. jewels watch is award-winning author of Wildwood flowers and phrases of the Moon in 98 Julie received a prestigious $5,000 grant for the Kentucky foundation for women to continue writing fiction Outstanding! My youngest cat is always putting in her two cents