Lack of sexual desire is the number one problem seen by sex therapists today. Not Tonight, Dear contains well-researched and reassuring answers to such questions as: • Why is lack of sexual desire the problem most often seen by sex therapists today? • How does female sexual desire differ from that of a male? • What causes sexual desire to decline? • How can a high-desire person find happiness with a low-desire partner? • Are some people born with low levels of desire-and can this be changed? • What is the secret to keeping desire at a high level in long-standing marriages? • How can you improve desire in a person who is not motivated to change? • How can a single person maintain a high desire level while waiting for the right partner? • What are the hidden psychological influences of parenthood on sexual desire and how can they be overcome? • How can you satisfy a partner's desire and prevent infidelity?