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Hardcover (1 to 2 lbs)

Oregon

When to Say Yes, How to Say No, to Take Control of Your Life

Tells how to set limits and still be a loving person, discusses mental, emotional, and spiritual boundaries, and looks at the related teachings of the Scriptures

Boundaries

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Light Paperback (1 lb or less)

Pennsylvania

A Guide for Teens - How to Build Relationships That Protect Your Personal Space and Respect Your Feelings

This book invites teens to examine their lives and relationships. It begins by helping define what physical, emotional, spiritual and sexual boundaries are. Stories of other teens illustrate how personal space and feeling can be either respected or violated in relationships with others.

The book's journal format encourages teens to reflect on and record feelings about their own relationships by answering for themselves. Do people respect your boundaries? Has anyone ever made you feel uncomfortable in some way? Have you ever felt manipulated, intimidated, or mistreated by somehone you regarded as a friend? How can you get a friendship that has gone wrong back on track?

Use Boundaries: A Guide for Teens to help assess relationships with family, friends, and classmates. Learn how to build close and satisfying friendships while guarding against being used or abused by others. Learn what it takes to be a good friend in return.

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Paperback (1 to 2 lbs)

Texas

When to Say Yes, When to Say No to Help Your Children Gain Control of Their Lives

Discusses the creation of healthy boundries and reinforced consequences to help children develop a sense of accountability for their own lives.

Boundaries with Kids

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Georgia

Hope and Help for the Overcommitted and (Occasionally) Exhausted





If a person has extra time, nothing to do, and finds themself looking for ways to fill their empty days...this book is definitely not for them.

No Is a Beautiful Word is designed and crafted for people whose plate is full, whose margin is thin, and whose life feels overloaded. They are looking for help, relief, and wisdom to navigate the countless options that life offers on a daily basis.

This book is needed by people who:

 * Go to bed with a "To Do" list that never seems to get totally done.
 * Kindly say, "Yes" and secretly regret it five minutes later.
 * Feel pain and live with guilt when they have to say, "No."
 * Were taught that "No" is a dirty word.
 * Believe that saying "No" is a sign of weakness.
 * Feel trapped by unwise past commitments.
 * Want to say "Yes" to what matters most in life but are too exhausted.
 * Know that their life is out of balance and are seeking to fix it!

It will be valuable for:

 * Leaders who have a tough time making the hard decisions because they fear hurting someone's feelings.
 * Executives who feel over extended and pressed to the edges of their capacity.
 * Parents who feel overworked and under appreciated.
 * Students who are trying to balance the intensity of school, work, and their relational world.
 * Retired people who find themselves saying, with subtle humor but aching regret, "I am more busy now than I have ever been!"
 * Single people who go to bed at night exhausted because the day left no margin and offered no oasis of peace.
 * Married people who love their life but secretly dream about time to play, space to relax, and taking a nap.

No Is a Beautiful Word is designed to be read briskly, chewed on thoroughly, and acted on practically. The chapters are brief by intention. They range from one paragraph (that's right, some chapters are only a few sentences long!) to four pages.

The goal of this book is give people clear concepts, paint a picture of what it looks like to live out the idea, and then move on to the next thought. The vision is to help people learn to say "No" to the things that don't matter (or don't matter as much) so they can say "Yes" to the things that bring life, hope, peace, and lasting meaning.

No Is a Beautiful Word

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Oklahoma

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Tells how to set limits and still be a loving person; discusses mental, emotional, and spiritual boundaries; and looks at the related teachings of the Scriptures.

Idaho

New York

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Tennessee

Biblical Boundaries for the Emerging Church

The church growth movement has been accused of selling out to pragmatism or functionalism by embracing growth principles just because they work. Towns and Stetzer set biblical boundaries for the emerging church.

Perimeters of Light

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Nebraska

How to Have That Difficult Conversation You've Been Avoiding

A practical handbook on positive confrontation by the authors of the award-winning and best-selling Boundaries Successful people confront well. They know that setting healthy boundaries improves relationships. They have discovered that uncomfortable--even dangerous--situations can often be avoided or resolved through direct conversation. But most of us don't know how to go about having difficult conversations. We see confrontation as scary or adversarial. We're afraid to ask a boss for a raise or talk to a relative about a drinking problem, or even address a relational conflict with a spouse or someone we are dating. from their best-selling book Boundaries and apply them to a variety of the most common difficult situations and relationships. healthy confrontation can improve relationships * Presents the essentials of a good boundary-setting conversation * Provides tips on how to prepare for the conversation * Shows how to tell people what you want, how to stop bad behavior, and how to deal with counterattack * Gives actual examples of conversations to have with your spouse, your date, your kids, your coworker, your boss, your parents, and more From the Book Sometimes people get confused in a confrontation because the other person gets them off track. If that happens, remember this formula. than anyone here. That's pretty hypocritical. You: I understand it's hard for you to see, and I'm glad you meant it as a joke and weren't trying to be hurtful. What I'm telling you, though, and what I don't want you to miss, is how it affected me. It hurt me and I don't want to be talked to like that.

Boundaries Face to Face

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Boundaries With Kids

Washington

#parenting #christian #boundaries #relationships 

How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children

What the Award-Winning Boundaries Has Done for Adult Relationships, Boundaries with Kids Will Do for You and Your ChildrenThis workbook helps you put the principles detailed in Boundaries with Kids to work in your family. Here at last is the help you need for raising your kids to take responsibility for their actions, attitudes, and emotions. Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend take you through the ins and outs of establishing family boundaries and cultivating sound character in your children. The clear, helpful exercises and applications in the Boundaries with Kids Workbook will help you make the leap from understanding to* identifying the boundary issues underlying child behavior problems* setting boundaries and establishing consequences with your kids* getting out of the "nagging" trap* relinquishing control and helping your child develop self-control instead* applying the ten laws of boundaries to parenting* taking six practical steps for implementing boundaries with your kidsStep by step, you will take strides toward bringing control to an out-of-control family life, setting limits while still being a loving parent--and above all, instilling in your children the godly character that is the foundation for healthy, productive adult living.

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Ohio

Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family

One of the most significant but least understood of character disorders in individuals is narcissistic personality disorder, or NPD. In this book, a licensed marital and family therapist provides a much-needed overview of NPD, its wide-ranging effects, and guidelines for dealing with this disorder.

The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists

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Michigan

Embrace Detachment As a Path to Freedom (Addiction Recovery and Al-Anon Self-Help Book)

Daily lessons and meditations on how to detach from other people's expectations and discover a life of balance and freedom

Do you ever feel like you give other people too much power over what you think and feel? Does how your mate or child or employer treat you make or break your day? Do you find yourself feeling immobilized by other people's expectations and demands? These are the classic indicators of codependence. And the only solution to codependence is detachment. This seeming paradox--embracing (bringing near you) detachment (separation)--holds the key to your inner peace and that of those around you.

Through 200 meditations, Karen Casey teaches you how to let go of the illusion that you can control anyone or anything beyond yourself. You'll learn how to find your own balance point and how to get to it whenever you find yourself tempted to become enmeshed in other people's problems or to rescue them.

"200 short, straightforward daily lessons illustrating the many forms that detachment can take in one's life. Casey's latest is an easy reference guide for those seeking recovery or peace." --Publishers Weekly

Let Go Now

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A Kid-To-kind Guide to Keeping Private Parts Private

Helping kids set healthy boundaries for their private parts can be a daunting and awkward task for parents, counselors and educators. Written from a kid's point of view, I Said No makes this task a lot easier. To help Zack cope with a real-life experience he had with a friend, he and his mom wrote a book to help prepare other kids to deal with a range of problematic situations. I Said No uses kid-friendly language and illustrations to help parents and concerned adults give kids guidance they can understand, practice and use. Using a simple, direct, decidedly non-icky approach that doesn't dumb down the issues involved, as well as an easy-to-use system to help kids rehearse and remember appropriate responses to help keep them safe, I Said No covers a variety of topics, including: * What's appropriate and with whom. * How to deal with inappropriate behavior, bribes and threats. * When and where to go for help, and what to do if the people you are turning to for help don't listen. * Dealing with feelings of guilt and shame.

I Said No!

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#paperback #psychology #therapy #mentalhealth #boundaries

Illinois

Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns

BIFF IS A GAME CHANGER FOR COMMUNICATING WITH PEOPLE WITH HIGH CONFLICT PERSONALITIES

We live in an age of rapid change and instant communication. We also live in a Culture of Blame and Disrespect, creating a need to manage our responses to high conflict people (HCPs). A BIFF Response® can be applied in any communication anywhere: in an email, a text message, on social media, or in a letter. It can be used at work, earning you respect and success. It can help you get along with difficult family members, friends, neighbors, and others anywhere in your life.

BIFF was designed to protect you and your reputation by responding quickly and civilly to people who treat you rudely while being reasonable in return. BIFF stands for Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm. A BIFF response is easy to remember, but hard to do. It takes practice! This first book in the Conflict Communication Series is for anyone dealing with high conflict written communications. Complete with instructions in the four-step BIFF method, and numerous practical examples, readers will learn the intricacies of stopping the back-and-forth messages and ultimately contain the conflict. (If you need to use BIFF with a co-parent, BIFF for CoParent Communication is just for you! And BIFF at Work is perfect for workplace communication.)

This Second Edition includes a new chapter on Coaching for BIFF Responses. Anyone can use this coaching method to help someone else with a BIFF communication by asking 10 simple questions to make it even more effective.

Then learn the EAR Statement(tm) technique in Calming Upset People with EAR for communicating in person (verbally) in high-conflict situations or with any upset person. An EAR Statement can calm an angry or upset person in seconds!

Biff

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Rhode Island

In Jackson, Mississippi, in 1962, there are lines that are not crossed. With the civil rights movement exploding all around them, three women start a movement of their own, forever changing a town and the way women--black and white, mothers and daughters--view one another.

The Help

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North Carolina

Healthy relationships depend on maintaining effective personal boundaries. But many people don't know where to start. The New York Times bestselling book Boundaries has helped millions understand how to set boundaries in a loving way that builds relationships.

Drawing on principles from the Bible, the Boundaries Participant's Guide takes small groups on a journey of discovery and practical application so that you can answer tough questions like:

 * Why do I feel guilty about setting clear boundaries?
 * What if the boundaries I set hurt the other person?
 * Is it difficult for me to hear no from others?
 * What are examples of legitimate boundaries at work and home?
 * How can I have good boundaries online?

As a participant, you'll learn how to live more fully and display truth and love more freely. Each of these nine interactive sessions corresponds with a video presentation by Cloud and Townsend (companion DVD, sold separately).

This Participant's Guide is packed with insights, exercises, and group discussion questions that can profoundly improve the quality of your relationships in every sphere of life--marriage, family, friendships, church, and the workplace.

Sessions include:

 * What is a Boundary?
 * Understanding Boundaries
 * The Laws of Boundaries, Part I
 * The Laws of Boundaries, Part II
 * Myths about Boundaries
 * Boundary Conflicts, Part I
 * Boundary Conflicts, Part II
 * Boundary Successes, Part I
 * Boundary Successes, Part II

Now revised to enhance both your group experience and personal growth, this Participant's Guide features insights, exercises, and all the practical resources for maximizing both group participation and personal growth.

Boundaries Participant's Guide

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Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries

Val J. Peter; Todd Dowd

Boundaries

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries with Kids

Kevin G. Harney

No Is a Beautiful Word

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries

Elmer L. Towns; Edward Stetzer

Perimeters of Light

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries Face to Face

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries

Dr He ry Cloud/Dr John Townsend

Boundaries With Kids

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries with Kids

Henry Cloud

Boundaries with Kids

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries

Eleanor D. Payson

The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists

Karen Casey

Let Go Now

Kimberly King; Zachary King; Sue Rama (Illustrator)

I Said No!

Bill Eddy

Biff

Kathryn Stockett

The Help

Henry Cloud; John Townsend; Lisa Guest (As told to)

Boundaries Participant's Guide

Henry Cloud; John Townsend

Boundaries