This Is How It Always Is by Laurie Frankel is a poignant and thought-provoking novel that explores the complexities of family, identity, and the journey of self-acceptance. The story follows the Walsh-Adams family, who seem to have it all—a loving marriage, happy children, and a stable life. But everything changes when their youngest child, Claude, expresses a desire to be a girl, leading the family on a transformative and often difficult journey of understanding and support. As they navigate the challenges of raising a transgender child, the family must grapple with societal expectations, fear of judgment, and the question of how best to protect and honor Claude’s true self. This Is How It Always Is is a heartfelt exploration of love, courage, and the unbreakable bond between parents and children. With humor and deep emotional resonance, Laurie Frankel crafts a beautiful and inspiring story that will resonate with anyone who has ever faced difficult decisions for the ones they love. This novel is perfect for readers interested in family dynamics, identity, and stories of personal growth.